It’s the new year and with every Monday being called ‘Blue Monday’ it’s no wonder we need something to cheer us up. So indulge with Rachael McCoy, We-Vibe’s sexpert and her cheeky sex tips. Put the logs on the fire, throw down a rug, grab a glass of champagne and put the spark back into your love life…
1. Start as you mean to go on! If you are settling for bad sex or no sex at all, now is the time to do something about it. Write down what you really want and make positive steps to achieve it. No one else can change your situation other than you.
2. Learn something new. It doesn’t matter how experienced you are as a lover, you can always learn something new. Do a workshop, it doesn’t matter how experienced you are as a lover, you can always learn something new. Do a workshop, read a book, go online and do some research. Forums for women are a great place to get lots of honest opinions and advice from ‘real women’ about what women really want. *I hold Master Classes for men teaching them how to make a woman orgasm, how to avoid ‘drama’ in relationships and I teach sexual techniques that every man should know!
3. Challenge yourself sexually. Is there something you’ve always wanted to try sexually? What is stopping you? The more honest you are and the more you challenge yourself sexually the more confident you will become.
4. Build your stamina. Not just to get a great body but so you can maintain a great, physical sex session. Women feel exactly the same about lazy men in bed as men do about women that just want to lie on their backs during sex. Set yourself a little ‘sex workout’ where you spend 10- 20 minutes a day trying to build strength so you can last in the bedroom.
5. Rein it in. Speaking of stamina, practice holding back your orgasm during masturbation. When you feel the sensation coming, stop and then build it up again. The longer and more often you do this the longer you will be able to last when you are having sex which will please your woman and make your orgasms far more intense.
6. Try a new sex toy. The most exciting sex toy for couples that was launched last year was the We-Vibe 4. It is a couples vibrator that sits inside the woman as you penetrate her giving you both extraordinary sensations during sex. It is a luxury vibrator that allows you to have intimate, hands free sex while it stimulates her clitoris, g-spot and your penis all at the same time!
7. Change your positions. It may sound obvious but it’s something that many people tend to forget. Remember, every single position that you explore will give you both a different sensation, penetration angle and depth. The We-Book of Delights gives you 15 positions to try with clear instructions for him and her. It also gives you tips on how to discuss sexual topics with your partner and some love games.
8. Touch and tease. When your woman is giving you oral sex remember to touch her body at the same time. This will give her some stimulation and include her more into the ‘act’ which will make her enjoy it more and probably make her want to do it for longer.
9. Pillow placement. For deeper penetration put a folded pillow under your partners bum when you are in missionary and on top. The angle of you penetrating her will feel far more intense for both of you and it will also make it easier for her to lift her legs higher for even deeper penetration. Doing this with a We-Vibe 4 is inserted will give her some great g-spot stimulation too.
10. Don’t feel inferior if you need a little extra help to give your woman a g-spot orgasm. Every woman is shaped differently and will need a different stimulation to give her this incredible experience. A toy like the We-Vibe 4 will really help with this during sex as the g-spot massager will be doing a lot of the work while you can focus on the penetration. Every time you penetrate her your penis will push against the vibrator forcing it to press and massage her g-spot making it much easier for both of you to achieve an incredible orgasm.
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